Talking
about names turns out there are people who do not like the name. Why did it happen ? how can there be someone who doesn't like his
own name? and do you belong to people
who don't like your own name?. Alright before we start the discussion I want to explain
the meaning of the name. What is the
name ? names are labels given to objects, people, places, products (for
example, product brands) and even ideas or concepts, which are usually used to
distinguish one another. Names can be
used to identify a group or just an object in a unique or given context.
For
example there are 2 children named Delana Pence and Amber Gibson who these
children do not like their first names because they always get ridicule from
people around them. Cleveland Kent Evans, an associate professor of psychology
at Bellevue University, who has studied given names for more than 20 years.
"A great many people-more women than men-go through a period during their
adolescence where they dislike their name as part of the general adolescent
concern with identity and what other people think of them." he said.
"But I think for most people these feelings subside by the time they are
in their 30s."
This
story also experienced by my mother too.
My mother's name is Meilani and apparently her given name is Siti Nur
Hasanah. FYI I just found out the story
behind my mother's name after being told by my gradmother. The name was given
by his uncle. The reason is because Siti
nur hasanah is the name of my uncle's ex girlfriend. And my grandmother did not like the name
given to her child. Before entering school my grandmother changed my mother's
name and offered to choose the name Melani or Meilani. And finally my mother chose the name is
Meilani. My grandmother said the name
was given because my mother was born in May and is easy to remember.
The
name chosen is a parent's prayer and great hope for her child. Most people
believe that names can also shape personality and influence the emotional
development and nature of their owners, both directly and indirectly. My name
is Ananda Faiza Azzahra, this name was given by my mother. Ananda means my son, Faiza means lucky and
Azzahra is one of the names of the Prophet Muhammad's son who is pious and
religious. So my name has the meaning of
my son who is lucky like the son of the prophet Muhammad. I really like my name because it is a prayer
and my name is hope of my parents.
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